Strictly Platonic

I have a friend who told me this story, and so I don't embarrass her I will use different names. Girl=Aubrey Boy=Brady. Okay, got it? Aubrey is outgoing. Brady is  awkward. (IF YOU ARE THE REAL AUBREY AND BRADY I'M SORRY) She tells me this story of how they met and they were friends and she was like "Bree this kid is cute" and he had no interest in her at all. (that's just how it goes) Anyway, they kinda stopped talking for awhile in the beginning because he got weird-ed out by her. After the awkward 'I hope she is getting the hint that I am not interested that boys do' they started talking again. Except for this time they were just friends getting to know each other. From an outsider's perspective I would say that they were borderline best friends. You could just tell ya know? They would tell each other school sucks, about past relationships, funny stories, watch gay TV shows (IN MY APARTMENT), complain about how guys are douches, and so on and so on.  Here's the catch...Aubrey wanted more. So she went along for the run (literally they ran together). Now that they were past the awkward phases (or so we thought) Aubrey was like I want to kiss Brady so she asked and he was like....ummmm no that's weird.  Of course Aubrey didn't think he would be awkward about that but he was and he avoided her for like 2 days and it was funny for me to watch. This is where it gets funny....Get this, after what was suppose to be a giant joke it really happened! They always talked about kissing and occasionally about kissing each other because they are good friends and one night SHE REALLY GOES TO HIS HOUSE. Like WHOAH FOR REAL AUBREY? Are you stupid?

She goes there lies about what happens. Like we knew, we're not stupid. Finally she tells us that they made out and yeah it was fun but she was mad that after this whole time of waiting and wanting  to kiss him there would be a spark. She said there wasn't. She was like welllll....it's always really cold at his house so maybe that's why I didn't feel anything because I was so cold. Now not only is she freaking out that they kissed she has made up a crazy story in her head of why he's avoiding her. Maybe she was a bad kisser? Maybe he was? She won't tell me.  If you ask me it sounds like a one night stand, but what do I know? 

How do you act after a kiss?! Everyone wants to avoid having it be awkward. Do you wait for them to text you? Do you text them? Do you send them a funny picture of you first so they know that you are trying to not make it awkward? 

• I guess that answer is NEVER LOOK/TALK to them again. It's easier. Pretend it never happened. (Of course I'm kisssing... *kidding) 
• Even when you are in a relationship first kisses are so awkward. WHY? 
• Guys if you kiss a girl and you know it was unwanted you better let her know. Like it won't hurt her feelings if you are like how about we never do that again. Well just let her down easy. :)
• I don't believe in NCMO's. Sorry. 

Pretty much I am saying that there's no rule book. No proper etiquette of how to act when something awkward happens. You just go with the flow. Roll with the punches.  Let things happen and try not to over think things.  After this whole time of chasing him to get a kiss, she got it, and now wishes she didn't.  That's what happens. It's all just a giant game. You want what you can't have. Once you get it you are like now what? 

 

Aubrey sorry I blogged about you. ANYONE WANT TO GO TO CALI? I AM GOING THIS WEEKEND.

"Love is a ruthless game

Unless you play it good and right"

-T Swift