He's Just Not That Into You

"He's just not that into you" the phrase made popular by the movie and also by Greg Behrendt's book. 

When a girl hears those words it's almost as bad as hearing "it's not you, it's me." Guys are notorious for trying to let girls down in the nicest way possible (well, most guys). Guys take drastic measures to make sure when they are dumping you, it doesn't actually feel like you are being dumped. Which leaves you (the girl) wondering on if there was something that you could have changed about yourself to avoid it. 

For privacy purposes of my friends and myself I have changed the names of the people in the following stories. 

Quick Story: Shey and Tielur have been hanging out for years (literally). Yet, whenever Shey wanted to take things to the next step Tielur made her feel like it wasn't necessary because things were already good they way they were. FALSE. If someone, after years, isn't willing to commit. HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU

Quick Story #2: Kassie and Brady had been hanging out all summer but when summer was over, so was the relationship. When it was time for "the talk" Brady stated that he wasn't looking for anything serious right now but reminded Kassie that she's his best friend. PAUSE.  Let me interrupt, when he says that he's not looking for anything serious right now: He means. He's not looking for anything serious WITH YOU. 

In the event that your realize that your "someone" wasn't that into you. I have put together a few steps to help ease the pain. I call it Break-Up 101. Please note that there is no specific order.

*Drink your calories (Regular soda and not diet)

*If someone asks what size you would like your combo always say large

*Download sad songs radio on Pandora

*Eat your weight in ice cream

*Remember you you will always 'want fries with that'

Okay, I'm kidding! There's no proper way to heal your broken heart. However, I strongly believe that food can help a lot. In all reality you just have to realize that you are better than *insert guys name*. 

Good luck with dating. 

Xoxo,